On Considering Others First
My offense in the past has often been simple— moving on instinct or impulse, without reading and considering the feelings of others first.
It's not completely deliberate, but there was negligence, which had effects I only recognized in hindsight. And then I would find myself suprised when some people no longer wanted me around.
At least nasty people are aware they are disliked, and sometimes why, which can provide an opportunity for change.
If you care, you'll practice continually putting aside your own weaknesses, insecurities, and impulses to find people where they are at, and to figure out how to contribute to their well being. Not in the way you assume they want or need, but in a way that matters to them.